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What Your Wife Isn’t Telling You

What Your Wife Isn’t Telling You

When my post Let Your Husband Be A Man went viral, I was surprised to hear feedback from just as many men as women about what I had to say. As a result of that post, a powerful follow-up question emerged. It came from multiple men– but also echoed robustly against the walls of my own heart. What about the wives? How do we let our wives be women? How can husbands learn to love their wives well?

After speaking prayerfully with many women, my own husband, and God– today I’m taking a stab at answering this complex question.

SUBMISSION: What to do when your husband makes a decision you completely disagree with

SUBMISSION: What to do when your husband makes a decision you completely disagree with

A strong, humble, amazing woman wrote to me recently. She’d read my viral post Let Your Husband Be A Man and it spoke directly to her heart, but also left her with questions. Her husband had made a decision that she staunchly opposed and she was seeking Godly counsel about what to do. I could tell she was caught between a rock and a hard place, and her sincere heart-cry was to do the biblical, right thing—even if it was going to be uncomfortable.

To the woman who’s lonely in a house full of people

To the woman who’s lonely in a house full of people

As we sat down to dinner, I watched the faces of my husband and children as they dug into their meals and happily discussed the events of the past week. My own family had no idea what was going on inside of me; how I really felt. They would have been shocked to hear the truth—that while on the surface I appeared bubbly and engaged, I felt like I was dying each day on the inside.